In Hong Kong, funeral flower etiquette is deeply influenced by Chinese cultural values, symbolism, and timing. Knowing what type of flowers to send—and when—is essential to conveying your sympathy respectfully.
White and yellow chrysanthemums are commonly used in Hong Kong funerals, as they symbolize grief and mourning. Wreaths (花圈) are typically sent directly to the funeral parlor, usually on the day of or the evening before the service. Floral arrangements can also be delivered to the family’s home, but only after the funeral, as pre-funeral deliveries may be considered inauspicious.
Understanding the subtleties of timing and flower type helps avoid cultural missteps. For example, while Hong Kong florist shops offer a range of options, it’s important to seek advice from an experienced florist who understands local customs.
Another key point is the relationship between the sender and the deceased. Close family members may opt for elaborate arrangements or bonsai combinations as a symbol of deep respect and enduring legacy. Colleagues or acquaintances usually send more modest displays, such as tabletop bonsai or simple white orchid potting.
There’s also a local preference for uniformity in arrangements at funeral parlors. Floral designs are often placed in symmetrical rows. Mismatched arrangements can appear out of place and may unintentionally draw attention. Always coordinate with the family or the funeral planner if you intend to send flowers.
Consider timing logistics. Most funeral services in Hong Kong are held within a week of passing. Relying on an expert florist who offers same day flower delivery ensures your arrangement arrives on time and in proper condition.